Approaches & Modalities

My approach helps you address and work through the core issues underlying your struggles.

I begin psychotherapy with one to three intake sessions to get a sense of what you hope to gain from therapy and to arrive at a mutual understanding of the concerns that brought you to this work. From there, we will work collaboratively to create a relationship that facilitates a deeper understanding of yourself so you can expand your range of awareness, develop a sense of possibility about new ways of being, and clarify your intentions about how to live a life that is more fulfilling and meaningful to you. I work intensively, meaning we meet at least once to three times weekly on an open-ended basis.

Consistent psychodynamic psychotherapy has been proven to be highly effective. It sets in motion psychological processes that lead to ongoing change, continuing to work even after therapy ends.

I also integrate therapeutic methods that draw from the following treatment approaches:

Contemporary psychoanalysis and object relations, developmental psychology, neuroscience research on the psychobiology of trauma, stress and burnout, anti-oppression frameworks including critical race theory, black feminism, queer theory and Liberation Psychology, Jungian and archetypal psychology, Gestalt, somatics and body-based approaches, indigenous wisdom traditions drawing from Sikolohiyang Pilipino (Filipino psychology) and Sikodiwa (Filipino spiritual psychology based on the work of Carl Lorenz Cervantes), Buddhist psychology, and select cognitive therapies including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) and Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT).

 
 

Strategies I Incorporate

Internal Family Systems (or “parts work”)

We contain multitudes. Each part of you is valuable and worthy of our care and attention. Together we can discover, give voice to and befriend the many parts and facets of you. In therapy, we can make room for your inner wise Self who knows how to heal and work towards wholeness.

Attachment Theory and Relational Approaches

Our attachment pattern is a blueprint that is unconsciously shaped by life experiences, based upon how our needs were treated by our caretakers, family members and past partners. Together we’ll be pragmatic, generate self-knowledge and study what happens for you in relationship, inside and outside of therapy.

Sensorimotor Trauma Therapy

Trauma that has not been processed can continue to be re-experienced on a somatic (body) level with symptoms such as physical pain, numbing, hyperarousal of emotions or a rapid heart beat. Together we can become more aware of how your body communicates emotions, decipher your body’s messages and help you manage those feelings and physical states by developing inner and outer resources that will support you in your healing journey.

Enneagram and Personality Typologies

Personality typologies like the Enneagram can empower self-growth and deepen understanding and acceptance of self by identifying your strengths, inclinations and challenges. It is a tool that can help us examine how you relate with yourself, others and the world.

Therapeutic Tools

Mindfulness and Gestalt Awareness practice

Mindfulness teaches us how to be in the present moment, foster a sense of calm and clearheadedness and cultivates non-judgment, curiosity and kindness towards ourselves and others. I will help you build awareness of feelings and physical states and we will collaborate on developing inner and outer resources that will support you along your healing journey.

Grounding tools

Grounding techniques help reduce anxiety, overthinking and feelings of overwhelm by bringing your focus back to your physical experience. Together we can develop an arsenal of tools that you can access at any time to help you focus on your body and surroundings rather than on possible and unwanted future outcomes or unfortunate past events.

Wise Mind

Cultivating “wise mind” invites us to learn how to take the middle path between reason/logic and emotion. It builds greater connection to your intuitive knowing which leads to balance, clarity and wisdom.

Nonviolent Communication

Nonviolent communication (NVC) is a powerful tool for better relationships and social change. NVC helps us to be clear with ourselves and others about what we think, feel, believe and need. NVC fosters self-responsibility, honesty and compassion by inviting us to begin brave conversations with our own needs and values, while listening deeply to others in the process.

“And the speaking will get easier and easier. And you will find you have fallen in love with your own vision, which you may never have realized you had.

And you will lose some friends and lovers.... And new ones will find you and cherish you. ... And at last you'll know with surpassing certainty that only one thing is more frightening than speaking your truth. And that is not speaking.”

— Audre Lorde